With your thoughts on love and relationships, how did you compromise when you settled down? Your post that me and so many others have connected with “What Does Love Have To Do With My Vagina?” makes me want to know whether you still believe in that? Or, at some point did you have to compromise with each other/yourself? – KL
Ah, so I’ve been exposed, have I? I’ve gone against my basic nature and taken the road more committed. To be honest with you things haven’t really been put to the test yet. It’s a recent development the whole exclusive thing and, well, I’m only about a month or so in. But to the point — yes, inevitably compromise occurs. As much as I’m at odds with monogamy… when there’s only one guy who’s ever been able to give you an orgasm I think you try and see if you can make it work. But no, I haven’t and will not “compromise myself.” Being alone (i.e. without boyfriend) gave me a delicious taste of the magnificence of belonging to no one but yourself. As hard as that can be in a relationship I’m going to try my damndest.